Tim Urban (waitbutwhy.com) talks of time optimism. It is a euphemism/kind way of referring to being late. Busyness is a form of laziness. If you are time pessimistic, you leave space. You don’t start new tasks if you don’t have the time to give them the necessary container (focused attention). You allow space, to be on time. On time *for* people. As a matter of respect. If you are constantly making people wait for you, you are not going to get many chances. But that does mean, as the time pessimist, you are regularly going to be the one waiting. Because you have created space. That space is partly an acknowledgment that other people’s time is as important as yours. We all get 24 hours a day, rich and poor, powerful and powerless. Busyness is often used as a conspicuous signal of importance. We can’t know what people are doing that matters, but being late implies that thing is more important than the person you keep waiting. When you're doing a presentation, “sorry, I put this presentation together at the last moment” is not good enough. It means in a room full of 10-100 people, that you think that your time is worth more than all their time combined. Because it is the one true point of equality, we should not waste other people's time.
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