‘I don’t have time’ is a pet peeve. I like being the guy with time. I try make time for people who have time for me. Interestingly, it doesn’t mean people will ask. Being self-sufficient, or paying for things that we need, makes asking difficult. Even if someone offers. There can be the game of people offering something, but expecting a refusal. A desire not to put people out. A co-ordination problem. Communication struggles. People who want to help. People who need help. A gap in between. Sharing and gift economies require bridges. Of Trust. Of Bravery. Of Community.