Winking in the Dark

There is not enough work. Much of the work there is does not pay enough to have some left over to build capital. It is not simply a case of willingness to work. You must find a job that matches your skills and knowledge. Then it depends how many other people could do the job, and whether the employer/client specifically wants you. Ideally this would all be neatly mapped out like GPS. Insert destination, and a road map is provided. The challenge is we all need to eat. In a pure play meritocracy with 7.8 Billion people, there is for all but the Djokofednadals, always someone better. We operate behind smoke and mirrors to protect our containers. A friend told me about a reality show called “dating on the spectrum”, and how young adults with autism deal with the unpredictability of dating. A world where you hope someone stops “looking for someone better”. In some ways their yesses are yesses and noes are noes, and they deal with it. Imagine a world with full transparency where we were comfortable being open with our asks and offers. It would be pretty uncomfortable, but we would do less winking in the dark.

Winking in the Dark