If you are time rich, rather than money rich, you need to learn to create boundaries. It's very similar to the rich-rich when people start asking for money. People start using your time more conspicuously, if they feel entitled to it because they are busy. When you create space and someone else doesn’t. It's a little bit like being punctual. The people who aren't punctual arrive late and make people who are punctual, wait for them. Which even though it is perhaps not intentional, is a way of saying their time is more important. Tim Urban writes about chronically, late, insane people (Clips). He calls it time optimism. They (and he includes himself) always try fit too much in. I am typically on time, and part of the reason for that is I stop doing whatever I'm doing early. People like me are time pessimists because we leave gaps for the next thing. I do a lot of waiting. We need to build a whole new way of looking at respect and how we recognise people, if we're going to change the way we make our decisions around money. Allowing for gaps. Allowing for the things we can’t see.
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