A lot of questions are designed to trip people up. To find the hole. The problem is all arguments are holey. Words are very crude tools. Sentences are random pieces of wood strapped together. Paragraphs are lifeboats on stormy seas blown up to see if they float. We are all just trying desperately to figure what on earth is going on around us. To survive. Yet most of us have a core sense of something we are pushing towards. A feeling. We ourselves are trying to clarify what that is. If the intention of the questions is to help the person find that core, then hop into the boat with them. If your intention is to sink their boat, then move on. Good luck on your own deserted island, without any buddies, naked and afraid.