Thursday, September 23, 2021

Start with Space

You can’t build capacity to absorb shocks and stress (to prevent losing sight of what matters), without finding space and time. 

Space is not “what is left”. Start with space. In financial terms, that means “paying yourself first”. 

First, put some money aside to build a buffer. Work towards having 3-6 months of spending as a cushion for the expected unexpected. To absorb months that cost extra. To absorb shocks that would have derailed you. Before you save to spend on a thingthing, put money aside to deal with anything life throws at you. 
 
The money is there, but not there. Protect the boundaries around your buffer. It is not there to spend, it is there to hold. Repair the buffer when noise shakes it. Pay yourself first. Then with whatever is left, decide consciously how to spend it. Don’t start with a list of things you have to spend on. Start with what you have, and choose how to spend that. Start where you are. 

Easier said than done... but we can’t focus on what matters, if we can’t focus.

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